When You Notice These 8 Things In your Relationship, Don't Ignore

Falling in love can be profoundly beautiful, at the same time, it can stop us from seeing the signs that let us know that the relationship is unhealthy.

There are some habits and behaviours that we notice someone we love doing, that makes us take a step back and reconsider if he/she is the type of person we really want to be with.

Red flags should never be ignored because not taking immediate action can result in heartbreak or toxic situations.

Are you in a relationship or planning to go into one, here are 8 things you should never ignore in your relationship.

Also read: 5 Behaviors Men Display When They Are Playing Mind Games With You

1. He/she doesn't care about your boundaries

Personal space is an important aspect of a healthy relationship, so a partner who truly loves you will respect your personal space.

When partners don't respect their personal space, it can lead to communication breakdown.

So true love requires both partners to respect each other's boundaries.

When you notice that your partner doesn't respect your boundaries, it's a sign that he/she is trying to control you and doesn't love you.

2. They don't let you express your emotions

For a healthy relationship to exist, partners must give room for expressing each other's emotions.

When you can both express your feelings and emotions, you will be able to build intimacy and understanding.

If you notice that your partner doesn't give you room to express your feelings or he/she always ignores you when you are trying to have a serious conversation with them, they don't value you.

3. They are not honest with you

Without honesty, it will be difficult to trust someone.

When you have a dishonest partner, you will find it difficult to trust them and this can have a negative impact on the relationship.

If you notice that your partner is someone who often lies, secretive or doesn't want you to know about important things going on in their life, then he/she is not trustworthy.

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4. You feel insecure being with them

When your partner start doing things that makes you feel insecure around them, then it's time to take a step back and re-evaluate.

A good partner should support and uplift you.

If you have a partner who always complain about your appearance and abilities, he or she may be trying to manipulate you emotionally.

5. They try to control you

Nobody wants to be in a relationship with a controlling partner.

If your partner is the type of person who monitors your phone, tells you the type of people you should talk to or tells you what to do without considering how you feel, then you have a controlling partner.

6. They consistently avoid discussions about commitment

A partner who always avoid discussions about commitment might be scared of getting too close or might not be looking for something serious.

If he/she always avoids any discussion where you have to talk about the future or commitment, it's a sign that they are not taking the relationship serious.

Someone who is truly in love with you will always include you in their plans for the future.

7. They are manipulative

When there is true love in a relationship, both partners should be able to understand themselves mutually.

If you notice that your partner gives you the silent treatment or blackmail you emotionally when they need to get their way, it's a big red flag that should not be ignored.

8. They stop you from seeing your family and friends

A partner who is truly in love with you will never try to stop you from seeing the people you love.

One major reason someone will stop you from seeing the people you love is because they want you to be more dependent on them.

If you notice this behaviour in your partner, it's a big warning sign that should never be ignored.

Never ignore red flags in your relationship because they are signs that shows there is something wrong with the person. Ignoring them can seriously affect your mental and emotional wellbeing.

A partner who is truly in love with you will value you, respect you and you will feel safe with them.

So if you notice that your partner has the eight habits above in your relationship, take a step back and ask yourself if the relationship is healthy or not.

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